Fitting for a Kinky Collar 

For the most comfortable fit, two fingers should fit in between the collar and your neck. And yes, even if you are playing with pain you want your collar and other BDSM accessories to fit well!  The better a collar fits, the longer your submissive will be able to wear it for you. 

Our staff at Lotus Blooms can assist you with measuring neck for a well fitting collar if you ask nicely, or you and use the following steps to measure for your perfect collar at home. You'll need to calculate the circumference of your neck (which is just a fancy way of saying the measurement around your neck)

MEAURE YOUR NECK CIRCUMFERENCE FOR A BDSM COLLAR

1. Find a flexible measuring tape or a piece of string/shoelace that you can later measure against a ruler or a straight measuring tape.
2. Place the measuring tape or string around the base of your neck, where you want the collar to sit. The string should be snug against your skin but not too tight- remember the 2 finger rule
3. If you're using a measuring tape, read the measurement in inches where the end of the tape meets the rest of the tape. If you're using a string, mark the point where the end of the string meets the rest of the string, and then measure the length of the string with a ruler, measuring tape, or your phone's measuring app.
4. You have found your neck circumference! Now it's time to shop!

HOW DO I KNOW IF IT FITS?

A well sized collar will rest easily at the base of your neck. behind your testicles without cutting off blood flow. It shouldn't pinch or leave you feeling numb. 

Whether you are looking for a collar for 24/7 power exchange, for bondage scenes, or just to spice things up, a comfortable, well fitting collar is must for fetish wear!