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Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life
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Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life

$ 22.95

A staff favorite! Ever wonder why you're just not into something? Or why you seem to be into everything at any time? This book has answers and suggestions based on ground-breaking neuroscience and it's all presented in a funny and extremely realistic way. Dr. Emily Nagoski compares your sex drive to a car--there is a brake pedal and a gas pedal and you can press one, both, or neither at any given time. Dr. Nagoski has started a revolution with the mantra "Your body is normal" and has shown the way to get the most out of your normal body's experience--truly pleasure for every body!

This book makes sex science so sexy, approachable, and practical! 

Read more about Come As You Are in our blog.

Hear what our educators have to say: "[Come As You Are is if] your best friend ACTUALLY knew all about sex life and your body." 

 

Length: 400 pages

Publisher: Simon & Schuster Paperbacks

Emily Nagoski, Ph.D., is a dedicated American sex educator and researcher, known for her impactful work, including the book "Come as You Are." With a compassionate approach, she served as the former director of wellness education at Smith College, where she taught a course focused on women's sexuality. Emily is not only a gifted and engaging speaker but also a trusted expert in women's sexual wellbeing, healthy relationships, and the critical prevention of sexual violence and harassment. People seek out Emily's insights because she thoughtfully combines scientific understanding with genuine care for her audience.

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