A few weeks ago I was texting with a guy who clearly was interested in a relationship. One of those “I just want a boyfriend, I don’t care who—as long as he’s cute” types. While getting acquainted, I asked a question that (perhaps naively) seemed harmless to me.
“Do you ever hookup?”
At this point we had already set a tentative date to get drinks, so it was less a proposition and more of a legitimate question. He responded the he didn’t really, it “wasn’t his thing“ and asked about me.
“Sure. I’m sex positive so while I’m not opposed to finding a relationship I don’t have any issue with casual sex at all.”
His answer didn’t particularly thrill me.